In our daily lives, we often rush
through tasks, trying to get them done, trying to finish as much as we can each
day, speeding along in our cars to our next destination, rushing to do what we
need to do there, and then leaving so that we can speed to our next
destination.
Unfortunately, it’s often not until
we approach our final destination that we realize what madness this all is. At
the end of the day, we’re often exhausted and stressed out from the grind and
the chaos and the business of the day. We don’t have time for what’s important
to us, for what we really want to be doing, for spending time with loved ones,
for doing things we’re passionate about.
STEPS TO FOLLOW:-
1.Decide what is important. Take a step back and think about what’s important to you.
What do you really want to be doing, who do you want to spend your time with,
what do you want to accomplish with your work? Make a short list of 4-5 things
for your life, 4-5 people you want to spend time with, 4-5 things you’d like to
accomplish at work.
2.Examine your
commitments. A big part of the problem is that
our lives are way too full. We can’t possibly do everything we have committed
to doing, and we certainly can’t enjoy it if we’re trying to do everything.
Accept that you can’t do everything, know that you want to do what’s important
to you, and try to eliminate the commitments that aren’t as important.
3.Do less each
day. Don’t fill your day up with things
to do. You will end up rushing to do them all. If you normally try (and fail)
to do 7-10 things, do 3 important ones instead (with 3 more smaller items to do
if you get those three done). This will give you time to do what you need to
do, and not rush.
4.Leave space
between tasks or appointments.
Another mistake is trying to schedule things back-to-back. This leaves no
cushion in case things take longer than we planned (which they always do), and
it also gives us a feeling of being rushed and stressed throughout the day.
Instead, leave a good-sized gap between your appointments or tasks, allowing
you to focus more on each one, and have a transition time between them.
5.Eliminate as
much as possible from your to-do list.
You can’t do everything on your to-do list. Even if you could, more things will
come up. As much as you can, simplify your to-do list down to the essentials.
This allows you to rush less and focus more on what’s important.
6.Slow down and
enjoy every task. This is the most important tip in
this article. Read it twice. Whatever you’re doing, whether it’s a work task,
eating, brushing your teeth, cooking dinner, driving to work: slow down. Try to
enjoy whatever you’re doing
7.Single-task. This is an important point. Do one thing at a time, and do
it well.
8.Eliminate
stress. Find the stressful things in your
life, and find ways to eliminate them.
9.Create time for
solitude. In addition to slowing down and
enjoying the tasks we do, and doing less of them, it’s also important to just
have some time to yourself.
11.SPRINKLE SIMPLE
PLEASURES THROUGHOUT YOUR DAY.
Knowing what your simple pleasures are, and putting a few of them in each day,
can go a long way to making life more enjoyable.
12.PRACTICE BEING
PRESENT. You can practice being in the
moment at any time during the day. The key methods of being present include
paying attention instead of daydreaming, observing what is going on around you,
breathing attentively and meditating.
13.LIVE IN THE MOMENT. Instead of delayed gratification, try enjoying life right
now.
14.Putting others
first helps with living a peaceful life.
Living in conflict with people hurts, and sometimes we feel so small after a
minor or major argument. But if we could just look past their faults, they
could look past ours maybe. Forgiveness helps with living a peaceful life, (at
peace with ourselves and others around us).
15.Discover how
you can live peacefully on the planet.
Sometimes our actions bring harm to others or the environment without our
knowledge. People are not always paid fairly for their work or nature is not
respected. Being happy and living in harmony with others and nature is called sustainable
happiness.
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